February is here and love is in the air! I am a teeny bit late to the party. I knew I had to write about it after I read what every meme, blogger, vlogger and tweet was all about. As expected, nothing out of the ordinary, one person in a relationship complaining that valentines day should be everyday, single guys laughing at those in relationships because this is a day where guys have to empty their wallets, single ladies parading on the parade of the taken ladies just because they are single.
With all that being said, I love valentines day! Yes yes I only love valentines day because i am in a relationship well sue me Suzan. Forgive me for being a hopeless romantic. It doesn’t hurt that my fiance spoils me any chance he gets (I’m really not bragging, his mom said I should thank her for raising him that way) so Valentines day always remains special. I do suspect we will both be relaxing and just watching a movie at home this year because I am yet to get used to my working routine so we are ALWAYS tired.
Just like everyday should be mothers day, every day should be Valentines day. Realistically It just does not happen. So why not enjoy one day where we go the EXTRA MILE to make things special. Let’s face it, making everyday extra special doesn’t have to be expensive but it comes with a cost that unfortunately most of us cannot afford. Whether this be lush gifts or long periods of time spent zoning into each other’s eyes either way it’s a luxury. People have to work, go to school and sadly not everyone can afford to spend on their significant other daily. Personally I wouldn’t have it any other way! Like Cheryl Cole said, Too much of anything can make you sick, even the good can be a curse.
So I say enjoy the heck out of this day because we deserve one day reserved for the extra special attention, affection and spoils. If you’re the unlucky single girl or just in a not so romantic relationship then don’t be the party popper to those who do. Let others enjoy their day, 24 hours flies by with the blink of an eye.
Let’s not forget that it’s a two way street. Us ladies aren’t the only ones who enjoys a surprise. Spoil your man, make it special for his poor soul too!
P. S. How cute is my sisters kitty ?